met sweetpea's caseworker today- things arn't looking as much like adoption (for us) as i had hoped. she said paternal grama is interested. So, they will do background checks and then a homestudy. Birthdad also has a lawyer- also not good. AND, although they told me that Birthmom had had rights terminted on a previous child, i am now being told this isn't true! one of her older daughters is still in a foster/relative placement and the other daughter she knows nothing about???
sigh. I will just love, snuggle and enjoy her for as long as i am blessed to have her!
liz