Showing posts with label sebastian. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sebastian. Show all posts

Sunday, February 20, 2011

The reform homebirth needs


Sebastian, at birth Oct 2006


well after living my life for the last year and two months i have been hard pressed to re examine many things that i held as facts. Death challenged many "facts" i thought i knew, and rocked me to my core. In the rubble left i have been carefully and painstakingly reconstructing something of worth from the pieces. i want, i need my daughter's name to matter. i need the world to change in some way because of her.
i know without a shadow of a doubt Aquila would be alive had i chosen a hospital birth from the beginning with her. i am pretty sure that my daughter would also be alive had i chosen a better educated, more competent midwife, and had thus transferred in a timely matter.
I cannot change the past however... i can only attempt to change the future. I believe that homebirth in America needs a serious revamp. Homebirth is not going anywhere. even though many people seem to think i want it to go away, they would be wrong. i do not. i fully grasp what is good and what potential for benefit lies in midwifery care and even in homebirth.
BUT
first off , until some major changes happen people need real information on what is up with the midwifery system, and what risks there are in homebirth. they need to know that study after study shows that homebirth has 3 times the neonatal death rate
here
over hospital birth. They need to know that homebirth should only be for low-risk woman - Currently every midwife i know will take a woman carrying twins and breeches, moms with histories of shoulder dystocia, diabetes, pre-eclampsia, GBS positive etc, etc, etc......
People need to understand that a CPM is nothing close to a CNM in training and skills.

I think ultimately we need three things-
#1 to create a uniform, nation wide standard for what is a midwife , what they can and can not do and how they must be governed.
#2 to abolish the title of CPM and have only midwives with a CMN or like degree.
#3 to integrate midwifery care into the health care system by covering midwifery care on all insurances (like Florida), and on Medicaid. But in the same token- require midwives to be just as well trained and as responsible as other providers who are- by upping the training to CNM level and by requiring malpractice insurance (also like Florida).


as i tell my children , if you want to be treated like an adult (professional), then act like one

some of you are now saying, 'why malpractice insurance?'
and some of are even saying things like this " malpractice insurance requirements will run midwives out of business and cause unnecessary lawsuits!"
really?
i guess you have never met a baby with extensive brain damage caused by a providers negligence...i have.
why should the parents have to pay what they in no way can afford so that midwives can practice without any liability?
because, sure a parent could try to sue a midwife with no insurance...but good luck finding a lawyer..and if she does? well the lawsuit will never get paid out, so the parent will still not get the money needed to care for the damaged child. how fair is that? you say that a midwife should not have to pay to protect her clients? don't most small business carry liability insurance? Aren't you and i and every other driver legally required to carry driver insurance?
If malpractice insurance runs midwives and home births out of business, than why is Florida's homebirth/midwifery community still alive and kicking?
Florida law requires all midwives to carry a certain level of liability insurance.
Florida law also requires all insurance providers to cover homebirth.
sounds like a win for both 'sides" doesn't it?


what do you think?

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Sebastian turns 3!!



Happy birthday my sweet, sweet boy!!! you are a joy to me and a blessing from God !

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

sebastian


sebastian fell asleep on the rug with Levi!



hi hair is crazy cute, swirls in 20 different directions and in the right weather it curls.

Thursday, October 11, 2007


little daddy!
sebastian was mowing with his mower, while daddy was with his!

Saturday, August 25, 2007

SEBASTIAN IS A BIG WALKER!!

he took his first steps to Daddy today, right in front of Mommy (yay!). he will turn 10 months on the 29th (4 days from now)
i can't believe my baby walks :)

Friday, August 24, 2007

Our bad ol' dogs got out yesterday- tristan left the gate open and they thought that was a great opportunity for a walk! LOL
so it took a bunch of worrying and some drama to get them back, but they are home.
Sebastian is like inches away from walking. he stands and he acts like he's going to take a step, then he just sits down. he will be 10 months on wed...
He's also like monster baby.. he wears mostly 18 month, some 2 yr old clothes. yikes!!

so here's where we are in the foster/adopt process:
this sat we do an all day pride class, mon a CPR class and a health/safety inspection of our home. sept 11th we have a medications class, and then we get our homestudy done.
after our homestudy is approved we will hopefully soon get a referral. I am super excited :)

Monday, August 20, 2007

Thursday, August 2, 2007

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Completely asleep baby! LOL

Tuesday, May 1, 2007

UNDER CONTRACT!!!

YAY!
the Duplex is now(As of sat, 28th) under contract! we settled for 10K under our asking price which is great seeing as our agreed upon price is 25K over anything else sold on the street.
guess all those improvements worked!the home inspection was done yesterday, and the closing date is set for on or before may 25th.

as for other news-

i got back from a wonderful retreat this weekend. i was sick as a dog but it was still great. Sebastian is a big flirt and enjoyed all the attention.
Sebastian cut his first tooth Thursday night. big boy!
Speaking of BIG- he weighs 21 pounds now!!! he just turned 6 months!

Thursday, April 19, 2007

beautiful baby picts



here is sebastian today-

Wednesday, April 4, 2007

sebastian


he laughs, he babbles, he sits up!